“The
greatest discovery in life is self-discovery. Until you find yourself you will
always be someone else. Become yourself.” - Dr Myles Munroe
Identity Crisis
As I continue from where I stopped
in part one of this subject “You Are Not Less Than What You Ought To Be”.
I want to delve into the importance of "knowing our Identity".
My dear reader I strongly believe that when you
know who you are, no one can manipulate you and it puts you in a position to
rise above every challenge. Joseph was thrown into the pit and sold into
slavery but that did not deter what he would become. He remained a faithful servant even when he was jailed. He had already had dreams
and conceived the revelation who was and what he would become, this is an
amazing story that is told over and over and it reminds us that there is so
much at stake but we need not fear but rise to the occasion.
There is an Identity crisis and this
is something we shouldn’t shy away from. There are young or old people who
still haven’t discovered who they are. They have modeled their lives on
someone else’s life (the way they walk, talk, dress, act etc). The peril of comparison is fueling this more than ever, because people have refused to be content with how they were created and aren’t
appreciating their uniqueness. They are copy cats and that's a bad thing.
When you search the internet, you
get to find that people are spending billions of money to look a certain way,
women are doing plastic surgery to change the way they look, I happened to
stumble on a video of a person who spent millions of dollars to look like
Angelina Jolie and another to look like Brad Pitt, these so called stars have made
their own names and done whatever it takes to take their craft to greater
heights that's why they are celebrated, others are trying to emulate them but they are doing it the wrong way by photocopying.
In part one of thearticle, I said this, “Sometimes we need to show people their worth and
tell them, what others do, they too can do and only do it better".
In telling them so, we are igniting a fire and a passion for them to rise
up from the pit of despair to the top of the mountain of possibilities.
Story of Arthur G. Gaston, Black Titan (Making of A Black American Millionaire)
In this book, the
authors Carol Jenkins and Elizabeth Gardner Hines wrote; -
Some of the men you see
and cannot see are convicts, leased out by the state to bring in revenues; some
are war veterans, newly returned to face few opportunities and ample disdain.
Nevertheless, one of these men, bruised like all the others by the demands of
his working life, is on the verge of taking his first step in the direction of
becoming a bona fide millionaire—one hundred times over.
Before this man is
through, he will serve as an adviser to President John Kennedy. He will play a
pivotal movement. One day he will even be likened to the great giants of
American industry—Rockefeller, Morgan, and Carnegie among them. Like just about
every other black man in Alabama in the early part of the twentieth century,
Arthur G. Gaston started with next to
nothing: His mother was a cook in the kitchen of a prominent white family; he
never had more than a tenth-grade education. After the war he had taken his
position in the mines as a means of survival—only to emerge utterly determined
that his life was worth more than what the mines were offering. In Summary, he
broke the status quo, he undid stereo types in a time of high slavery, he
traded the path that many did not walk, he was involved in (banking, insurance, motel,
restaurant, real estate, construction, funeral homes and cemeteries, radio
stations, senior housing, and a business college). He was involved and
supported the civil rights movement lead by Martin Luther King jr, he supported
financially and in many other ways.
“What I did any man can
do, if he has willpower, determination and a plan” - Arthur G. Gatson,
From the story of this man, we get to
understan
- He was a product of the slave parents and being a slave means so many things, less opportunities, oppression etc.
- He never had a tenth grade education.
- He worked in the mines as a means of survival.
To read more about Arthur G. Gaston, you can get this book from Amazon.
Knowing who you are pushes you to discover your purpose
His story doesn’t stop there,
while working in the mines for survival, he gets a revelation that his life was
worth more than what the mines were offering. Such revelations come to this who
view themselves differently, those who get to really know who they are. I am
stretching the point of IDENTITY, what can stop you if you get to know who you
are, I believe nothing. When you get to know who you are, it pushes you to
discover more of yourself and in doing so, you eventually get to know your
purpose.
Believe in who you are, focus on who you are, don’t live somebody else’s life – you are unique, embrace it
Have you looked down on yourself, have you believed that you
were just created a biomass and for nothing, have you believed that you have no
purpose, all those thoughts are lies, you were made for more and the dreams you
have had are valid, the ideas you have thought about to solve problems of this
world are valid. As much as you haven’t started to work your dream out, it
doesn’t mean you can’t start now. My dear reader, you are valuable, you have so
much worth, so much potential, choose to empty yourself and let your god given
talents and abilities begin to flow. You are not less than what you ought to
be. I read this somewhere, “If you are a
fish then don't spend your life trying to climb trees, you will never be great
at it. Just keep swimming”.
Check out part 3
#Impact #Empower #Transform
Check out part 3
#Impact #Empower #Transform
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